(Blog) 4 KEYS to Being Present To Your Kids Before, During or After Divorce
It seems that because divorce is so difficult to navigate and so stressful on the parents, our kids can get lost in the shuffle. Instead of putting our oxygen mask on first so we can support them, we are drowing in our own distress and chaos. We may forget how the...
(blog) What will divorce do to you
If you are going through a divorce right now, how will it impact you? You probably have no idea how to answer that question. Most people going through divorce are so immersed in stress, fear and overwhelm that it’s hard to think clearly. It’s difficult to know the...
(blog) Have you ever tried to buy your kids’ love after divorce?
Have you tried to buy your kids’ love out of guilt after divorce? Or maybe you felt sorry for them and tried to over-compensate with extra attention, coddling, etc. My Walk of Shame I recall when I got divorced way back in 1998. It’s definitely my walk of shame. My...
(blog) How to minimize the negative impact of divorce on kids this holiday season
Are you dreading the holidays while in the midst of divorce? If you are considering or going through divorce right now and you have kids, the holidays certainly add a layer of stress to an already intense situation. Family get togethers often have a way of drawing out...
