(blog) Finding Peace After the Trauma of Divorce
The Past Weighs Us Down The past can weigh us down like an anchor. It whispers lies, “Things were so much better back then.” This can be especially true if a certain someone loved us back then but doesn’t now. The past calls us back to certain...
(blog) Can you forgive yourself for the divorce?
Last week you were introduced to Fanny, a middle-aged woman who, after years of being married to a narcissistic husband, who was more interested in competition than love and intimacy, got divorced and began to heal from the years of abuse and neglect. For full blog on...
(blog) Forgiving your ex is for YOU
Last week we talked about your readiness to forgive your ex and the benefits of why you’d want to do it. One of those benefits was that forgiveness is for you, not them. Let’s drill down on this benefit a bit more. To illustrate how it’s true, meet Fanny. Fanny, from...
(blog) Are you ready to forgive your ex?
Are you ready to forgive your ex (and it’s OK if you’re not)? Rate the truth of the following statements on a scale of 0 to 10,10 being the highest. Do you feel that your ex or soon-to-be-ex is mostly to blame for the divorce? If you forgive them, do you fear...
