(blog) You deserve support through divorce Tip#1

(blog) You deserve support through divorce Tip#1

These last two weeks, we’ve been discussing three tips to confidently navigate divorce. Today we’ll focus on the #1 tip. Tip #3) Get clear on WHY a divorce is being considered.  I suggested that you dive deep into your heart and explore WHY you want to divorce by...
(blog) The End of My First Marriage (Part II of II)

(blog) The End of My First Marriage (Part II of II)

Last week I shared the story of how I got divorced, without being represented by my own counsel. Read here if you missed it. Because I had such low self-esteem and self-worth, I gave sole custody of my daughter, Maddie, to her dad. And because we didn’t know how to...
(video/blog) Are you on the back burner?

(video/blog) Are you on the back burner?

Watch this video where Beth Moe interviews me about how women try to be everything to everybody, putting themselves on the back burner. I was preparing my gardens a couple of Sundays ago (my 2nd year). I tend to get overwhelmed because there is so much to learn. One...
(retreat in 16 days) Do you like to be called out?

(retreat in 16 days) Do you like to be called out?

Do I like to be called out? Of course not! That’s a stupid question. Most of us don’t like to be called out. It can feel embarrassing, even shameful. But yet I sort of do like it, because for someone to notice a blind spot in me tells me they care enough to see it and...
Do you feel lost?

Do you feel lost?

Some of the loneliest days of my life have been the last two years, after losing my daughter, Maddie (22), and then losing support through a network group that I thought was family (some were, others weren’t). I felt alone and somewhat lost in my own swampland of...