(blog) Can you forgive yourself for the divorce?

(blog) Can you forgive yourself for the divorce?

Last week you were introduced to Fanny, a middle-aged woman who, after years of being married to a narcissistic husband, who was more interested in competition than love and intimacy, got divorced and began to heal from the years of abuse and neglect. For full blog on...
(blog) Forgiving your ex is for YOU

(blog) Forgiving your ex is for YOU

Last week we talked about your readiness to forgive your ex and the benefits of why you’d want to do it. One of those benefits was that forgiveness is for you, not them. Let’s drill down on this benefit a bit more. To illustrate how it’s true, meet Fanny. Fanny, from...
(blog) Are you ready to forgive your ex?

(blog) Are you ready to forgive your ex?

Are you ready to forgive your ex (and it’s OK if you’re not)? Rate the truth of the following statements on a scale of 0 to 10,10 being the highest. Do you feel that your ex or soon-to-be-ex is mostly to blame for the divorce? If you forgive them, do you fear...
(blog) Peaceful Divorce Tips for You

(blog) Peaceful Divorce Tips for You

If you’ve said yes to divorce, what’s the next step? What is more appropriate for you, a lawyer or mediator? Should you pursue kitchen table divorce, mediated divorce, collaborative divorce or contested divorce? From what I’ve learned, if you want peace while going...
(blog) Should you get divorced?

(blog) Should you get divorced?

Are you feeling unsure about how to proceed in your marriage and how those choices will impact your future and your kids’ future? You may be wondering if you’re making the right decision to end the marriage, assuming you’re the one to initiate the divorce. You may be...