Are you worthy, not entitled? (video)

Are you worthy, not entitled? (video)

Watch Video here! When I was growing up, I learned that I needed to be the peacekeeper. There was a lot of chaos in my home life because my parents fought a lot. I saw that I needed to protect my mom from my dad, emotionally and even physically. This is when I began...
Are you expressive, not aggressive (video)?

Are you expressive, not aggressive (video)?

Watch Video here! Today I’d like to talk about how we communicate to build trust. Personally, I’ve vacillated between the two extremes of either hiding my true thoughts and feelings and being over-powering and aggressive with them. In my first marriage,...
Are you responsible, not righteous (video)?

Are you responsible, not righteous (video)?

Watch Video here About 13 years ago I learned about this concept called Victim versus Responsible. According to the teaching, a victim blames everyone and everything for how life is unfairly folding for them.  Instead, we want to be response-able and take ownership...
Are you humble, not a doormat? (Video)

Are you humble, not a doormat? (Video)

(Watch Video) When growing up, I decided to be the peacemaker. Our household was volatile due, in part, to my dad’s anger and my mom’s inability to handle it.  So I tried to keep things together. This led to picking boyfriends who weren’t the best...
Are you organized, not rigid (video)?

Are you organized, not rigid (video)?

This is the third in a series of 9 articles and videos in which I want to dive deeper with you about what it means to be a Worthy Self-Advocate (WSA). Watch Video Here The structure you can expect: 1) Definition of WSA (as a reminder). 2) Name the attribute we’re...